One of my old friends has been unemployed for few months, recently I started worrying about her as she started to behave like a weirdo, and there are some symptoms:
1. she is bloated from size M to XL
2. she drowns in her own world that she actually isolated the world
3. she is lost and always controlled by her anger inside
4. she can’t concentrate
5. she started to believe that she can’t do anything
6. she lost her faith in everything
7. she became more sensitive, and arousal over little things
8. extreme emotion changes over few seconds
9. she stopped looking for job
10. she forces herself settle on being someone she never wish to become
It’s not easy for me as I have made a move to help her – rewritten her resume, intensively comfort, talk to her on the phone with my precious 4 sleeping hours, then arranged an interview in my office, and strived to get her a job!
I told her the answer we will ask, and got her prepared for an interview.
She did not show up.
I was furious, and I admitted that at that very moment, I looked down on her, was thinking that she was just simply lazy.
She sent me a message ‘ Sorry Bel, I can’t do it, I’m dressed, and sitting here feeling like a loser.’
My heart ached, she is my good friend
I don’t know how to help, talked to her few times, but feeling like trying to light up the candle of the other side of the wall.
I started to think that I have been like the other side of the mirror to her, the more I’m doing well, the higher pressure she would get, I sense it somehow.
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