There are many people who attracted to foreigners, reasons are varied, but one of them is very interesting for me. Let’s share.
Someone I know has recently fell in love with a girl who is from another country, they are both Europeans, this guy is very talented, artistic, sweet, hardworking and he has a good job, I don’t think he would have any problem getting gf(s) in his home city, but yes, he has some problem with that.
Big generalization, I realised that we all tend to be more patient and tolerated to the foreign friends, not because we like imported items but we often skip the certain expectations that we usually apply on the local friends, we tagged ‘Different’ on their forehead cos the foreign friends are supposed not familiar with the custom, so they shouldn’t be judged by the accepted social behaviours, make sense? E.g. An Asian friend kiss on your face twice to say goodbye, u would think, oh, she/he wants to be more than just friends.:) You just wouldn’t feel the same if she is a European. Do u agree?
Back to the story, I think he already know what he want in specific details, so he is unadventurous about meeting new people, and his people identifying system works too good that he can even decide if the conversation is worth to last…at least he thinks in this way. But only the foreign girls can break down his prejudice system, and that lead him to try to communicate with an open mind.
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